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Divorce or separation

To get the best help for your situation, first answer the questions on the guide's start page.

Steps of separation or divorce

The problems with the relationship may be twisted and your own thoughts might not seem clear. Help is available for the problems in the relationship.

Help is available if your separation is the result of violence or if you are afraid to tell an abusive spouse about your decision.

If your marriage has come to an end, you can apply for a divorce from the court alone or with your partner.

Once you have made the decision, deal with practical matters of the separation.

When you divorce or separate, you will have to agree on the distribution of property, and guardianship and maintenance of the children.

You may have considered ending your relationship for a long time or it may come as a terrible shock. Support is available for you and your family.

Remember to take care of your own and your loved ones' coping after the divorce. You can change your last name back to the previous one, if you wish.

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